Does He Really Love Me? Leave It To The Stars To Decide

by Sasha Drake

Often, it's very difficult to know whether or not your man truly loves you. Men are difficult to read, they hide their emotions well so that even if your man expresses his love for you, it is often tricky to come to the right conclusion. If you've ever asked yourself: "Does he love me?" I suggest that you stop trying to figure it out yourself and leave it to the stars to decide the does he love me test.

What do I mean by the stars?

Don't worry, I haven't gone crazy. As I said, it's nearly impossible to figure out whether your man really does love you. You should use a star love reading to see for sure.

A star reading is a process by which an astrologer uses you and your man's birthday to draw a combined star chart. Through this chart the astrologer is able to see into your relationship and examine the depth of your man's emotions towards you. You may think I've lost my mind, but people looked to the stars to provide answers for them for thousands of years. Why shouldn't you?

You probably won't be able to come to a 100% sure conclusion by yourself. Aren't you curious to see what your star love reading will show? It's not only exciting, it can also be a lot of fun to see what your future holds. I don't believe that everything is determined by the stars, but some people swear by it. I say, let the stars answer the question: "Does he really love me?" for you.

6 Ways to Show that "I love you"

By Lee Joe

I love this girl very much. Right now she is my wife. I still love her as much. I want to share my love with her, show my
love to her. I sometimes do things just to show her that I love her. These are some things that I do.

1. Watch a DVD together

This is the what I love doing. On our weekends, I'll rent a nice DVD, knowing that she will love watching. I'll prepare
some chips and red wine. Cuddling up the sofa, watching a nice movie, with chips and sipping red wine. What a romantic
night to spend with your love one.

2. Saying "I love you"

Married for three years, still today, I say "I love you" to my wife. This three words are the most powerful words on to show
your love. Say it not just for the sake of saying, but say it with all the feelings of love. Look into her eyes, say it
to her soul. I'll always get a hug for that.

3. Strolling after dinner

I'll bring her to the park after dinner. Strolling while holding her hand. We'll always share our dreams and life while
strolling. Catching up with each other's life due to the busy week we both had.

4. Write a book for her

I wrote a book about us and gave it to her on one of her birthday. The book says about how we met each other till we decided
to be an item. At times we'll still take out the book to read to rekindle that love that we have for each other

5. Email poems to her

I usually use email for my work. Once a while I'll send love poems to her via email. This surprised her, because she knows
my habit of using emails for work only. This simple act just make her beautify her day.

6. Handmade cards

I love to make cards. I make cards to my wife in any occasions. I want her to have the only special kind where no others
have. Only those that I made are special and unique. It doesn't need to be beautifully done up. All my cards are simple
yet unique. Some cards don't even have any drawings or designs, just a coconut tree sketch by me. Although it's simple
but it shows a lot about the love I have for her.

Love Affirmations

By Krzysztof Sroka

If there is one thing that can make everybody really happy, it is love. Love can mean different things to different people, but what really people want is to love someone and to be loved by someone.
Everybody needs someone special in their live, but statistics show that there are lots of lonely people.

Fortunately people are learning now about the Law of Attraction and how to attract a loving soul mate. If we want to attract someone special, the most important thing is to become attractive. I don't mean physically attractive. I mean attractive inside, to be a person with good character and personality. When we think or visualize our perfect soul mate, is it only important to us how this person looks? Of course not. We want more. We don't just think about the person's body.

There are different ways how to become attractive and attract loving relationships. One of the best methods is love affirmations. Humans are creatures of habit, so by repeating affirmations often with feeling and emotions, we will get into a habit of thinking about love.

According to the law of attraction "likes attracts likes". When there is love in your mind you will attract love. Even before you attract your soul mate, just by using love affirmations you will feel better, because the attitude of love in your mind will replace negative, unwanted feelings.

Below are some examples of love affirmations you can use. First you should start with affirmation recommended by Louise Hay, a healer, minister, and author of "Heal Your Body" and many other life-transforming books. The affirmation is "I love and approve of myself". If you don't love and approve of yourself, it will be very difficult to find someone who will really love you.

Some other affirmations I like are:

"I am emanating love to everybody I meet"

"I feel loved and appreciated"

"I'm attracting wonderful and loving people"

"I give and receive love easily"

These are just some examples of love affirmations. You can create your own love affirmations.

5 Major Tips To Make Your Dream Girl To Love You In 2 Months

By Hadee Ismail

Hi, this article might be useful to boys who are beginners in the field of love. These tips have been tested by me and its working. It’s important that you read carefully and understand.

1] Attention.

First you should get the attention of whom you are going to love. Its okay she is older or elder but first you should get the attention. Without it you can’t love a women or a girl. For an example try flirting or ask the time or ask her a book to read. Be careful, don’t flirt on public places. If you do so you would be kicked by older boys.

2] Good relationship.

Okay, now you have got the attention of your love, you should be friendly and build up your relationship more and more. Try helping her with her work sometimes or chat or text her. Make arrangements to do get together homework. If she is older you can’t do homework, instead try chatting with your dream love. Pls talk politely with your dream love.

3] Date her.

If you are friendlier with your older love or elder love, try dating her. Pls ask the girl very politely. If she says yes that means she likes you a bit or more than that. Try a candle light lunch [candle light dinners are normally done so try a lunch instead of dinner]. Talk more romantically.

4] Ignore.

If your dream love is starting to hang out with you more than her friends, try ignoring your love for 2-7 days. This will make your love crazy but she starts to worry why you are doing this. So this works.

5] Propose

Now it’s the time to propose your love to your dream love. After ignoring her she might come and ask you why you are doing like that. Then you say there is one reason why you are doing this. Then she asks what it is? Then you say you are in love with her and you are afraid to say because your dream love will leave you.

So these are the 5 tips to make your dream love to love you in 2-4 months.

I wish you best of luck.

Falling In Love

By Jimmy Sturo

It has been said, "Trip over love, you can get up. Fall in love and you fall forever." Albert Einstein, one of the foremost scientists of modern times, once concluded that gravitation cannot be held responsible when people fall in love. Perhaps what he was really trying to get across was the fact that love just happens and cannot be planned or executed. There are no rules to falling in love, it just happens and when it does, few are left sensible enough to ask why, when, what and how.

Now, it is absurd to attempt understanding love, not only because the task is impossible but also because falling in love requires no comprehension. People fall in love all the time - with animals, with inanimate objects, with places, with themselves and of course with each other. Most times people fall in love without even realizing that they are doing so, and when realization does strike, they are already in too deep. For those who believe in the laws or karma i.e. what goes around come around, love becomes something inevitable. As per these laws, people fall in love in a particular lifetime because their actions in earlier lives deemed it so. Everything is determined by the past, the individuals falling in love, the opportune moment, and the time length of the relationship. This may be a hard principle to grasp practically, but as humans, it gives us hope by telling us that what is meant to happen, will happen, and it will only happen when the individual is ready.

In this age of modernization, technology is being used to paint over the landscape of love. Love letters are being replaced by emails and chat rooms have taken the place of secret midnight liaisons. Individuals can look for brides over the Internet and use online community portals to meet their better halves. Some may even go to the extent of getting married online. Falling in love has become a science that functions in the unrestricted world of computers. However, the advent of technology into lovemaking cannot be scoffed at, since many people have met their soul mates on the Net and gone on to live happily ever after. The only risk is that perhaps, the loss of personal contact will make people fall in love a lot slower and possibly make relationships a bit colder.

3 Deadly Mistakes People Make With Their Love Life - You Must Be Aware Of These Before Its Late

By Puspha Pal Singh

It's very easy to fall in love but it's rather difficult to maintain it during the course of the relationship in the long term. You see this is probably the major reason why we have more divorces in the present day and age than ever before. People have a hard time maintaining a relationship and love in the long term. It's only a matter of time before the passion the love is lost and both the partners try to find someone new and fall in love all over again just to realize that they have been committing several mistakes. Read on to discover what these mistakes are and what you can do to save yourself.....

Not caring about the feelings of your partner- You see unless you show a deep concern for the feelings of your partner the relationship would never survive in the long term and all the feelings of love would be lost even before you realize it. Therefore learn to care about your partners feelings and pay them due respect.

Focusing on yourself all the time- You see love is a mutual thing and it always takes two to tango but often when some time has past in the relationship people often tend to start focusing on themselves and their needs all the time and completely ignore their partner. Always remember that love can never last when you focus on yourself too much, Love is always unconditional and selfless.

Be willing to make compromises- Love is also about making compromises but often either both or one of the partners is not ready to make any sort of compromises which often leads to the downfall of the relationship. Therefore unless you are willing to compromise it would never survive in the long term.

What Is Love?

By Francis K Githinji

The four letter word is the most widely used and I might also say abused in the world today. It flows so effortlessly through the lips of men and women. It is thrown so carelessly even where it is not necessary. Sometimes it makes me think there is no definite definition of this word. It depends on the context in which the word has been used. The definition of love is at a persons discretion. But what is love? It is subject to debate because there are many types of love. It depends with the perspective from which you are looking at it. Maybe you are a Christian and what has been drummed into you is agape love from the gospels. What about the love that you feel or have towards a sibling? I hope you are also not forgetting the so called love that is said to bring a man and a woman together.

When a man sees a woman for the first time, and he is attracted to that woman it is said it is love at first sight. But the better phrase to use would be it was lust at first sight. This is the most correct assessment especially of such a scenario. The male species in a human being is still an animal and is always looking for potential females to mate with. It is sex that attracts a man to woman but not love. what is love? Love means something different to man. To him having sex with a woman is paramount and it does not mean that he loves that woman. This is the reason why a man is genetically polygamous. There is nothing like love, it is the power of the loin that is attractive. How else does a man manage to have several wives and lovers hanging at the fringes?

Love is an illusion, it is a creation of the mind. What makes us believe there is love is simply because we do not want to change the status quo. It is a tradition passed from generation to generation and who are we to break these tradition? We were brought up believing in the concept of love. We grew up in a society where the word love was being thrown right, left and center with so much abandon. It is entrenched in our minds that yes, there is love. But have you ever sat down and pondered about is? Have you ever asked yourself what is love? And do you believe in it? Do not start biting your finger nails or scratching your head over the issue, it might go bald it it is not already bald.

The so called love that is so much hyped up is only a temporarily infatuation. People keep on falling in and out of "love". People fall out because infatuation is a temporary feeling and once it is worn out everything is over between the two of you. It must be understood that no love was involved. There is a very big misconception of the true meaning of love. Love is used as an escape goat so that people can indulge in their fantasies. What is love? Love is kindness stretched over a long period of time. It is the best way to put it.

All About Love - #8

By By Dorothy M. Neddermeyer, P.hD

The act of Love carries energy and energy facilitates transitions—transitions create healing. The energy generated by the act of love is astounding. When someone commits to the practice of a life of love and spiritual growth anything can heal. Healing is easy. The following well-known authors, motivational teachers and healers clearly and poignantly express the truth of love and healing. Part IX

"Always look at what you have left. Never look at what you have lost." – Robert H. Schuller

"To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance." - Oscar Wilde

"Don't be dismayed at goodbyes. A farewell is before you can meet again. And meeting again after a moment or lifetime is certain for those who are friends." - Richard Bach

"There will come a time when you believe everything is finished. That will be the beginning." – Author unknown

"The end is the beginning of something new." –Author unknown

"Tomorrow is a new day and time has a way of healing the pain of bad experiences." – Author unknown

"What we call the beginning is often the end. And to make an end is to make a beginning. The end is where we start from." -T.S. Eliot

"The past is like a river flowing out of sight, The future is an ocean filled with opportunity and delight."
- Anna Hoxie

"Put love first. Entertain thoughts that give life And when a thought or resentment, or hurt, or fear comes your way, have another thought that is more powerful - a thought that is love." - Mary Manin Morrissey

Can Love Destroy A Life?

By CD Mohatta

The title of this article is a little shocking, Isn't it? Because no one can think of love and destruction together. But love does destroy. How? Let us examine.

There is a story of a prince in India. He was in great love with his wife and never wanted to be without her. One day, an enemy king attacked him, but the prince did not want to go out and fight. He did not want to be away from his princess. The princess realized this and she asked the prince to go out for a minute. After sometime, a maid brought the head of princess to the prince with the dying message of the princess. 'Let our love not destroy you. You are a prince and you must save your state from the enemies. I am giving up my life so that you can carry out your duties properly.' Does this small story tell us anything? What lessons can we draw from this?

Many of us are extremely talented. Our talent can create a big difference to the world. We can help the world fight poverty, injustice and produce a better life for all. But some of us fall in frenzied love. This love is all encompassing. This love takes over our life. We see nothing but our sweetheart everywhere. For us, all the other work becomes insignificant. We lose our focus and are centered on our love like a mad person. This eats away the vitals of our personality.

For a person in deep and fanatic love, nothing matters other than love. All other talents take a back seat and the only driver is love. This kind of love destroys. Love that could have been very inspiring, manages to destroy. This is the irony of love.

To save yourselves from such destruction, you must always keep a level headed approach towards everything. You must sit back and reflect. Find out if you are missing larger goals? Think about time management and thought management. Discuss this out with your sweetheart. He/She will surely help you in such a situation. One who loves you, wants you to grow. So discuss this. Think, reflect and make other goals equally important once again in life. Fall in love. Enjoy the bliss of love. But let that love not destroy your personality.

What It Means to Love the Self

By Jeremy Creager

To me what it means to love the self is "growth", Personal Self Growth. It is those big questions "WHY" we all ask as children growing up. (So Just Do Not Stop Asking Why.)

I love to learn about love and self, and life, and freedom, and health, and abundance and happiness, and pure positive healing light unconditional love sores energy.

"I have found that to love the self is to learn what serves me most."

To know what serves us most we have to not only ask, but we have to come-to know what's true for us around questions like,

"What's the meaning of life?"

"Who am I?"

"Where did I come from?"

"Why am I here?"

"Do I have a purpose and what is it?"

"What is love?

And if not love then what else is there that I want to experience in life?"

And so on...

All these types of questions above will guide and lead us to higher vibration, lighter being’s of love, when asked in honest desire to know.

I know that for me to grow; it is only up to me and no one can do it for me.

Growth is self-response-ability.

I alone am the only one that can find what self love means to me.

So,

What does it mean to love the self?

If I were asked, "what does it mean to love the self?"

I would say that the answer comes in stages as consciousness evolves.
Even if we were to know the complete answer the first time the question was asked, once we know the answer, we do not need to ask the question.

We would have to ask, where is love for the self?

Love for the self is within the self, it is the self.

We would have to ask, where is the self to love?

The self to love is deep down at the core of oneself, within the awakened consciousness that is beyond the ego. The self comes from a place of non-attachment and freedom from separateness.

We would have to ask, what is the self that is loved?

The self that is loved is love and life force. The self is the reflection of all the beauty of life and is not attached to the idea of being the self.

We would have to ask, what is the love of the self?

Love of the self is joy, is bliss, is health, is beauty, is greatness, is wise, is the way to God, is God, is You.

We would have to ask, why is there a self to love? There is a self to love because this is the way we want it. The self to love exists because that is all there is, there is nothing else, and the reason is to love the self.

We would have to ask, why love the self?

To love the self is to live life to the fullest, because it feels so good; loving the self feels the best. To love the self is the only way to happiness and health—physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.

We would have to ask, how do we love the self?

We love the self by being kind to the self, by learning what the self is, and becoming passionate—even fanatical—about the self, what it wants and needs, by spending time alone going over all the beautiful parts of our self. We love the self only by taking responsibility for our self and having self-respect.

We would have to ask, how does the self love?

The self loves by choice, by free will, by the desire to feel good and to avoid pain. The self loves by its own actions. The self loves itself with compassion.

We would have to ask, when do we love the self?

I think a better question is, "is now a good time to love the self?” “When” is a funny thing; there is only now.

We would have to ask, when does the self love?

The self loves when we are present in the moment, and experiencing love by feeling good.

To love the self means to honor and respect the self, to make it a lifelong practice to love the self, to always see and enjoy the beauty within the self, to go deep into the self to know and remember one’s hidden depths, to accept oneself. It means being love, expressing love, and knowing that one is perfect in all one’s imperfections. It means being in the moment and it means being in love with oneself and all of life.

So "Learning to Love All Things Every Day and Even Down to Every Moment Is for Me What "Self Love" means, And This Is Growth.

A Woman's Complaint - Guys Use the Words "I Love You" Too Lightly or Too Often

By Jerry Heng

Do you find that your guy does not say I love you often enough, or use the words too lightly? Are you clueless about his feelings for you, when you do not hear these three words from him?

Well, women often complain that men use the words I love you too lightly, or do not use them at all. Women do not like guys to use the words too often, as the words would not have any meaning anymore. However, if the guy does not say I love you, a girl will not feel loved.

It is true that women want constant and continual love.

I have a lady friend who had a boyfriend, and both of them had a great time dating. However, the guy has not said I love you to her, after few months of dating. After a few months of waiting, the lady swallowed her pride and said it to him. However, the guy never said it back. In the end, the girl broke off with him, as she felt rejected.

Another lady friend of mine had a boyfriend, who said I love you all the time. To the girl, she felt loved at first. But having heard the words too often, she finds no meaning in the words anymore. She felt that the guy is not taking her seriously, and broke off with him.]

Well, if you have just started dating a guy for a short while, do not press him to say I love you. I cannot tell you when the perfect time is.

But what you want to hear is in a sincere and natural way. What you want is love, and not just sounds. You want to feel love, which he may not say it out. A guy may express his love through actions instead, which is often the case.

However, if he is unable to say I love you after a long time, or if he declares his love too early, it is advisable to re-think if he is the right man. He may not be able to give you the relationship that you desire.

The Five Love Languages Summary

By Forest Anderson

Just as everyone has different personalities and likes and dislikes, people also have different love languages. Your love language is the way that you most feel loved and cared for. Experts have aranged these 5 love languages into five easy to use categories:

The first love language is words of affirmation. If this is your love language, you feel most cared for when your spouse or anyone tells you how wonderful they think you are. It could be verbally or through a written note or another creative way of sharing all the great qualities you possess and all the ways the world is a better place because you are in it.

Another way you might feel loved it through acts of service. If someone taking your car to get detailed or taking over diaper duty for the day or relieving you of some daunting task really hits home with you, then this might be your love language.

The next area is affection. A hug, kiss, snuggle on the couch or sexual intimacy might be the way you feel most loved if your language is affection. It could be sexual or non-sexual, but physical touch is very important to you.

Quality time could also be your love language. Just being with your spouse, whether it's on some adventure or a fancy date or simply sitting the couch, may be the thing that fills you up the most.

The last of the five love languages is gifts. Everyone enjoys getting a gift, but if the receiving something from your spouse lights your fire the most then this might be your love language. It may not even be the gift itself, but the idea of the thought, the time it took and the knowledge your spouse has of you to pick out such a great gift - that completely fills you up!

One thing to be aware of: you tend to love in the way you desire to be loved. So make sure you find out what your spouse's love language is and seek to be creative and intentional in their love language. Happy language lessons!

How To Know If You Are In Love - Figure Out If It's True Love Or Just A Strong Attraction

By Puspha Pal Singh

Almost every human being goes through this phase in his or her life. There is always a time in our lives where we feel it might be love but we are never sure. You see love is a very deep emotion and is much more than just mere attraction. But how to figure out if it's love or just plain attraction? Read on to discover some of the best ways to find out whether it's true love or not and achieve the desired results.

You think about that person 24/7- Have you ever had a feeling about someone and you simply cant stop thinking about that person? No matter whether its morning or night that person even hounds your dreams while you are sleeping. Well this obsessed feeling about someone which you can't seem to control is known as love.

You feel extreme joy around that person- Whenever you are around that person you always experience joy and happiness no matter what mood you were in before meeting him or her. You see when you are in love the person you love becomes someone who would comfort your senses no matter whether you are in a good or a bad mood.

You start missing that person- Love is something which can't keep two people away too long and you instantly start missing that person even when you haven't talked for a day.

You feel their pain- Another best way to figure out whether you are love or not is by the way you feel the feelings of the person you love. You see when he or she is in pain you would feel the same feelings and you would feel their pain. You would find it extremely hard to see them in pain as if they were a part of your body.

Am I in Love? Mind Blowing Ways to Find Out Whether You Are in Love Or Not

By Puspha Pal Singh

So are you in love? Humans have a tendency to question their instincts and often a lot of people out there tend to confuse love for just mere attraction. Love is a very deep emotion and you should never confuse it with initial attraction. So how can one find out whether he/she is in love or not? Read on to discover some of the most earth shattering ways to find out whether you truly are in love or not......

No matter how hard you might try you keep thinking of that person- Does it happen to you a lot? Do you find it hard to stop thinking about the person you feel that you might love? Well if this thing carries on for a long period of time then it's definitely love. You see when our thinking goes out of control and we keep focusing on the same person over and over again then we have definite deeper feelings towards this person.

You feel like heaven around this person- Does this person's company give you absolute joy no matter which mood you might be in? Does this person make you happy even when you are down and depressed? Does his/her presence along lightens up your eyes? If this is the case then it's definitely love.

Do you get strong feelings to spend the rest of your life with this person- This is one thing which will always happen when you love someone. Love is such a strong feeling that you feel like being around that person all the time and not only this you get strong feelings of spending the rest of your life with this special person. There would be no doubts in your mind when you consider to do something in the long term.