Expressing Love Should Be Natural

by CD Mohatta

I looked in her eyes and I knew that she was in love with me. Her eyes told me that. I had asked him to meet me at five pm, and he was there at three thirty. I knew what was happening. His movements and his heartbeat told me all. I could see the fast steps that became faster when she reached me. I knew then. I was talking to him and he recited some old love poems he had written. He never made it appear as if the poems were written for somebody else. I knew that he was now reading them for me. Love, how to express love? Does it need any training? Or any books to read? Does love expression need any guidance about what to do and what to avoid? It is natural.

Love is a divine feeling. Love is not for ordinary people who suspect a motive everywhere. Love is not for moneymakers who want to look for an opportunity everywhere. Love is not for those who are looking for a body. Love is for those who are searching for a soul that will give them heavenly joy. Love is for those who want to talk in silence. Love is for dreamers. Love is for losers, because they lose themselves in love. Love is for one who forgets the world in love. Love is a supreme feeling.

Despite all I read about relationships, break-ups, marriages and divorces, when I look at a couple in honest love I see a divine sight. I forget all my worries for the moment. for I am watching what God created, but we polluted. i watch love, a very innocent love and i love that. Please fall in love and express it with your body and soul. Naturally. No books, no articles and no guides. Let your love flow, and your sweetheart will understand. That is love. Enjoy the bliss of love.

Tips On Getting A Girlfriend

by Alex Coulson

Getting a girlfriend, having a steady relationship with one woman, is what most guys eventually want. We all want to play the field, but there comes a day when having that one special girl is really important.

One of the best things that you can do to get that girlfriend you want to be with and who wants to be with you is quite simple. Enjoy your own life first. Learn to be happy with who you are and what you want out of life. If your happy with yourself, you'll look for a girl that has this quality, too. This healthy way to approach finding the right girl will pay off in spades later on.

Many, many people meet the girl of their dreams through friends and family. So, if you want to increase the number of girls to meet, enlarge your social circle. You'll have a greater amount of choices of who you can go out with. You also have the added benefit of finding someone who has the same tastes that you have and some of the same friends that you have. Having things in common is a great attractor.

Take the time to date different women. You want to be the right fit for the girl just as much as you want the girl to be a right fit for you. When you date different women and find out what their qualities, desires, and needs are you will be better equipped to know which girl will meets what you want in a partner.

Decide what qualities you want in a woman. This may take a little time. You may want to date the buxom brunette with the eyes that melt you into a pool of butter, but find out later on that those eyes melt a whole parade of men. Decide what you want to pursue in life, what interests you have, know your personality, etcetera. Match the woman who fits you the best.

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Why Women Leave Men - The Truth About Women Leaving Men

by JD Dean

So why do women leave men? Well, the reasons are usually much different than why men leave women.

For example, while men crave respect women crave appreciation. There is usually a strong misconception among men that women are usually like a classic motor car, that is, high maintenance but this is really not the case.

If only men realized that keeping their women happy just required a little consistent appreciation then they wouldn't be going into damage control when the crunch comes and they leave.

You've got to understand, women in the main are loyal to their men and it will take a lot of indirect frustration from men towards women to drive them to the point of throwing their hands in the air and saying enough is enough.

How To Make Women Feel Appreciated

The relationship between a man and a women has a very fine line between love and "I've had enough."

It's not usually hate when women leave men it's more frustration that they just can't seem to get through to them that some appreciation once in awhile will go a long way to keeping the relationship vessel on a steady course.

Yes, a cheating man or abusive man is a green light for women to leave men and in this case, the reasons are obvious. But the fact is, many women just become dissatisfied through lack of acknowledgment and the dangers of this will usually mean looking for it somewhere else.

Men who are players will usually be lurking in the distance somewhere waiting for an opportunity.

Women who are currently dissatisfied with their man's lack of appreciation will be drawn to these type of guys who know how to play the game and give them what their lacking. Before you know it, an affair develops.

If your woman has left for another man then ask yourself why she needed to go elsewhere to find the attention and appreciation she so craved.

Who's to blame? Well, one of the secrets to getting your partner back is to refrain from playing the blame game. This goes for both. As a man, you could do well to admit your faults rather than "fly off the handle" and try and understand why the hiccup occurred.

Yes, it's tough but a part of the magic of making up which needs to be addressed before the healing process can begin.

Love Is "The Heart of the Matter"

by Mary Woods

Love one another. All the world religions teach it, everyone wants and needs it, and it is the simple answer to almost any question. Love is not outside us, though we can block our awareness of It. Love remains the Truth of our Being, regardless of our relentless attempts to let fear stand in Its way. Love patiently calls to us from within, to get out of the way and let It be our Guide.

Love has depth. It cannot be defined due to Its limitless nature, yet it is in how we define it, that gives our life meaning. Love is expressed personally to the special relationships in our lives, as well as impersonally, to the Universal Love that connects us all as one. In the microcosm, we can say, "I love popcorn" and in the macrocosm, we can say "God is Love."

Love is both finite and infinite. As a word, love is both a noun and a verb; a person, place, or thing and an action. Love is a state of being, a feeling, an emotion, an energy, a demonstration. We can contemplate love and we can Be It. From the semantics of the word to the experience of It, Love is the True Source of Inspiration for philosophers, poets, and in the heart of every one of us.

Love is the heart of the matter. When your heart is full of love and gratitude, it is natural to want to express It to others. The more love you give, the more you receive, and everyone is uplifted in the process. More than just a lofty aspiration, living in love can be a practical application. If love is what we are in truth, then each soul has a unique way for It to manifest through us. We may ask ourselves, "How can I manifest love in my life?" What better purpose in life than to be and to give all the love that we are.

10 Steps That Can Rescue the Relationship

by Teecee Go

Sometimes saving a relationship is a challenge. It requires hard work, time and the cooperation of both people to rescue the relationship. Are you and your mate fighting constantly? If you want to save your relationship, how can you do this? You already have! By seeking to rescue the relationship, you have taken the first steps: admitting your marital conflicts.

There are 10 steps that can help rescue the relationship. By following them, you and your mate will be on the right track to intimacy and love once more.

Step One - When a relationship begins to fail or has been falling apart for some time, most couples start throwing fighting words that hurt. When a relationship gets to this point, you have to remember there are no winners. One person will have to face up to the whole issue and stop the fighting from ensuing.

Step Two - Remember that a relationship is a work in progress by both people. One person does not decide for the other and vice versa. If there is a breakdown, then both parties are at fault. To rescue the relationship, couples have to look at themselves to figure out what created the problems in the first place. Couples will have to ask themselves what is most important in the relationship and if it is worth saving.

Step Three - One person in the relationship needs to take control of the situation. This doesn't mean you are in control of your partner, just the situation itself.

Step Four - Be the better person by apologizing and walking away. By diffusing the situation, you can walk away with a clearer head. You do not always have to have the final say.

Step Five - If you really want to rescue the relationship, you need to find another place, a neutral ground, to have some quality time together. A good time to do this is when you are taking a vacation. By spending this time together away from all the memories of hurt and pain, you can find what was once important... your relationship.

Step Six - Most often times when persons in a relationship have an affair with someone outside of it, this causes a greater rift. By the constant arguing that occurs along with it, the person cheating is often drawn closer to his or her lover.

Step Seven - What you least expect to work when you are trying to rescue the relationship is space. Should things be extremely bad between the two of you, spending a few days away from each other tends to work too.

Step Eight - Utilize relationship counseling if things are so bad you cannot move forward. If you are fighting constantly, this is a necessary to move forward together.

Step Nine - Sometimes doing a trial separation is needed. Some couples have discovered that doing something like this ends up saving what they have. It also tends to make their relationship stronger.

Step Ten - Remember that how you act is important than the words you would say. This is also the time to make promises and follow through with them.

Falling In Love

by M. Edrice

What can I say about the soul of life, the essence of our being . Love brings euphoria in life. Love can give great satisfaction and enjoyment forever. For that to happen, you have to understand more about what is love, your own expectations and how to get the partner with whom you can live in love. Love can also destroy. Feelings are a very powerful tool we have to be happier. Many times we come to the break-up of a relationship we are unable to understand why we did not anticipate that. Why do two people love each other? Why do we need someone to love? Why cannot we love ourselves and exist alone?

Love is not for those who are in a relation but I consider love for everything surrounded us like God, Parents, Friends also those who we never know.

I used to live a simple, happy life. I call it happy, but it was more of a peaceful life. Happiness has different meanings at different times because of love. What is love? This looks a very simple question. Is it that simple? We all talk so much about love, read so much about love and use the word love so carelessly.

Love, the feeling that makes a person new and feel heavenly. Love, a feeling that changes life within a moment. Have we not heard of love at first sight? Love has many facets. Love is still a mystery and every lover has his/her own story about love.

All About Love - #13

by Dorothy M. Neddermeyer, PhD

The act of Love carries energy and energy facilitates transitions—transitions create healing. The energy generated by the act of love is astounding. When someone commits to the practice of a life of love and spiritual growth anything can heal. Healing is easy. The following well-known authors, motivational teachers and healers clearly and poignantly express the truth of love and healing.

“Find the person who will love you because of your differences and not in spite of them and you have found a lover for life.” - Leo Buscaglia

“Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profoundness. Kindness in giving creates love.” - Lao Tzu

“Love is the true means by which the world is enjoyed: our love to others, and others' love to us.” - Thomas Trahern

“Love is always bestowed as a gift -- freely, willingly, and without expectation.... We don't love to be loved; we love to love. - Leo Buscaglia

“We find rest in those we love, and we provide a resting place in ourselves for those who love us.” - Saint Bernard of Clairvaux

“Love grows by giving. The love we give away is the only love we keep. The only way to retain love is to give it away.” - Elbert Hubbard

“The most powerful symptom of love is a tenderness which becomes at times almost insupportable.” - Victor Hugo

“We can only learn to love by loving.” - Iris Murdoch

“There is no instinct like that of the heart.” - Lord Byron

“We are all born for love... it is the principle existence and it's only end.” – Disraeli

Love is Everywhere

by Arvind Katoch

Yes, love is every where. Love is in me, Love is in you and Love is there in everything on this earth because love is God and God is Love. Love provides us the opportunity to have the divine experience. Scientifically it is difficult to tell the causes of love. Still Love can do miracles. It does not cost anything to share and give Love. True Love always multiplies itself and never reduces. Now the question arises how to tell which true Love is and which is a fake one.

This question has very simple answer. We can never now the real feeling of the other person and for searching true love, we also do not need to worry about it. If our own feelings are true then it is defiantly a true love. We do not need other acceptance or approval for it. In love it matters only how we are ready to give. It is very easy to give love to others. We will always get many times more love in return. However there is one condition that our love should be free of any expectation.

Indian God Krishna only did love and love. He is a symbol of love and picture of love itself. We usually run here and there in the search of love and never find it but we forget to search what is near us. Love is here in our self, only we need to give it to other. If you offer others love then they are not going to return you hatred. They will also return you love. Love is very simple still so many people are not able to understand because they do not love themselves. First lesson in love is to love you.

Regretful Breakups - When You Regret Breaking Up With Someone

by Peter Harris

Have you recently broken off a relationship and regret breaking up with someone? You're regret may be justified but before you decide sit back and consider the reasons that you broke off the relationship.

Some break ups that occur are rash as we may act on pure emotion regarding something that happened in the relationship. Other break ups are thought out and occur over time. Whether a break up is based on a rash, unanticipated act or something that you have planned to do there are usually substantial and significant reasons for the act of breaking up to occur. Once the break up has occurred and you now have time to analyze why will you regret breaking up with that someone?

Have you ever been in a relationship where something happened that made you so mad that you ended the relationship in the heat of an arguement? It's a fairly common occurrence. After this occurs have you ever come to realize that you acted rashly and now regret the break up? This type of break up may have begun as an idle threat but as the argument continues your partner calls your bluff and before you know it you are broken up. The best way to avoid this is to never threaten a break up in the middle of an argument. It is best to let the argument run its natural course. Part ways after that and let your emotions cool for a couple of days. Once you have calmed down revisit the relationship and see if it is truly what you want. While in a calm, rational state if you keep coming to the same conclusion (that the relationship really isn't working) then you can proceed with a break up without the fear of regretting it later.

Rashly breaking up with someone can be hurtful to the other person. Even if you come back to them in a few days to apologize, stating that you really didn't mean it and that you don't want to break up, they may question your commitment to the relationship. They may wonder where your head is really at if you are willing to break up quickly and in the heat of the moment. Again, it's best to avoid that situation so you won't regret breaking up with someone.

It is possible that a break up that occurs in the heat of the moment was going to happen sooner or later anyway. The emotion and anger that is present during a heated arguement acts as a catalyst and speeds up the process. There may have been legitimate reasons that you wanted to end the relationship but for whatever reason just didn't want to face it or deal with it when you are thinking rationally. Then when your emotions are riled that's when it surfaces and you let it out and the break up occurs. You may regret breaking up with someone in this manner.

In the end, in order to avoid regretting breaking up with someone it is best to not break up when your temper is flared. Examine your relationship when you are calm and thinking rationally. Then decide if the relationship is something that you want.

What is Love

by Yair Czitrom

• Love is like a disease - it will put tow people in one bed.
• Love is like the sky – There are no limits.
• Love is like mathematics – you always have to proof it.
• Love is like a treasure – hard to find. Easy to loose
• Love is like an ocean – it will get very deep.
• Love is like a war – easy to start. Hard to finish.
• Love is like a dream – it will stop right at the best part.
• Love is like a balloon – if you press to hard, it will explode.
• Love is like a shower – sometimes it is hot and wet and other times cold and droopy.
• Love is like an apple – you need to be careful of the poisoned part.
• Love is like a fire – very difficult to control it. Sometimes it is hot and sometimes it will burn you
• Love is like a movie – sometime it will end good and sometimes bad.
• Love is like a glass – you need to be careful not the brake it.
• Love is like a tower of cards – it can fall down in any minute.
• Love is like taking a bath – at the end it will get cold.
• Love is like a pizza – it come always with extras.
• Love is like a magic key – it will open all the secret doors.
• Love is like an arrow – you might hit or miss.
• Love is like a dream – sometimes it is very hard to make up.
• Love is like a wish – you won’t always get what you wish for.
• Love is like air – it will feel your lungs.
• Love is like a puzzle game – it takes time to build it up.
• Love is like a lollypop – sometime sticky and sometimes sweet.
• Love is blind – it sees what it wants to.