The Law of Love

By Melody Bass

Love is its own law. Let love be your guiding principle.
When in doubt, listen to your heart. Don’t allow mental concepts, beliefs, or assumptions that are not based on love to dictate your behaviour. You are the source of love. The love inside you is abundant and eternal. You don’t need to beg, control, or compromise in order to be loved.

The more you focus on love and gratitude, the more you will be surrounded by love. If you complain, blame, and dwell on fear, you’ll attract others who are also resentful, angry, and fearful. Love knows no borders and no boundaries. Love includes everyone and everything.

Love takes no position, rising above separation. Find unity within by resolving the conflicts inside yourself and you won’t have to act them out with another.
Let telling the truth about who you are and what you are feeling and thinking be your foundation.

Vulnerable self-disclosure allows for empathy and understanding. The more truth is shared the more love grows.

Love is a state of consciousness available only when you’re willing to relinquish your defences. Protection is a barrier to love.
Love cannot be given or taken but it can be shared. The vibration of love in you is often stimulated when you come into contact with one who carries it.
It’s ok to make mistakes. Very few humans are able to love perfectly. Forgive yourself and others generously and you will experience such a shift of energy.

There is nothing to fear but fear itself”. We often have a programme running that we are not even aware of, which is protecting ourselves with fear.

One of the reasons we become so fearful, is that we have programmed with the habit of Protecting Ourselves with Fear. .

The law of love ensures that you see this universal truth. You cannot leave an experience permanently unless you exit with love and allowance.

That is why people tend to keep repeating the same types of patterns; until the day they stop resisting, and instead embrace it with love.

This could be a money, health or relationship issue. You cannot leave a situation permanently until you exit it with love. You cannot permanent.

WHAT IS LOVE? Love is energy. It is the foundation of all things. It is acknowledging that there is no separation. Love is expansive.

Anything that puts you in touch with your knowing opens the Heart.

Sacred Love - The Art of Falling in Love Over and Over and Over and Over Again

By Cristopher Walker

Through the practice and mastery of inner stillness, we can choose to be available for love at any time. We achieve this by simply diving past the ego, through the layers of emotion and fears, straight to the core that sits within. It is a hard path, because it is direct. This spontaneous act of falling in love is an essential asset for any sacred relationship. The keys to this direct path to love are in learning to focus on the object of the moment, and be totally present and un-distracted with your lover. It may be confrontational at first, but eventually, this experience of falling in love will become a permanent experience, always behind the reality of everyday life.

When you commit to be open, you can truly fall back in love any time you choose. We go straight past the ego, past the intellect, and we fall back in love because there is no expectation, no resistance, no question, nothing to defend or protect, no “I” or “me”, there is just love. There is no reason, so there is no resistance.

Becoming available to fall in love over and over with your beloved, requires that you create the space, the openness for love to exist. If you can master this art, then you can choose to make it last one second, or a lifetime. No matter what the circumstances, whether you are single or in your relationship, you can fall in love again and again. It is the most beautiful art, the most profound education. Becoming available does not depend on circumstances, but draws us straight to the moment of love.

Then, there is no memory needed, there is no hoping for a special circumstance, or event. Then, whether you are laying in each other’s arms, or separated forever, love can be celebrated in all its beauty. You can become available to fall in love every moment you choose. New love, old love, young love, sweet love, sacred love. It is simple really. You just need to know how to get out of your own way, switch off the protection, change modes, and you are there.

Love is independent of your thinking and emotions. If you can find love through the art of stillness, you will have found the secret to unconditional love, and the solution to all of life’s challenge. Then no matter where you are, no matter what is happening you can know that love is in your heart. A love that lasts forever; stillness where you, your beloved and all that surrounds you become one, in love.

Relationship Advice: Your Language of Love

By Jeff Herring

Q. My wife and I have been married now for three years, and in the beginning it was wonderful, but now we seem to have grown apart. Part of the problem is that 1 love to be touched; it makes me feel loved So I am always hugging and touching my wife, but she says she doesn't feel loved by me. Plus, she has stopped touching and hugging me, so consequently, I am beginning to feel unloved by her. Is this relationship over? What can we do to get this changed?

A. Many couples struggle with how to express love. The answer lies in realizing that each of us has our own unique "love language."

In general, most people need to either see love, hear love or feel love.

Problems can be twofold:

1. We typically don't know what our partner's love language is because not only have we not asked, but we also didn't even know we were supposed to ask.

2. Our natural tendency is to express love in the same way we would most like to receive it That works fine if we have the same love language as our partner.

But guess what?

Most couples have different love languages.

So in this reader's case, it's fairly clear that his love language is touch. It's how he best "gets it" that he is loved.

So naturally, he will communicate love in his own love language - touch. The problem is that his wife's love language is likely not touch, leading to more and more frustration for both.

The solution is to discover your partner's love language.

How?

This is gonna be complicated, so hang in there with me:

ASK

I'll even give you the words:

"In order 'for you to feel most loved by me, do you need to see it (I do things to show you), hear it (I tell you I love you), or feel it (I hug and touch you)?"

Once you have the answer, you can begin to communicate in that person's love language.

In this case, I'd be willing to bet that as he learns to communicate more often in his wife's love language, she will communicate more in his. In other words, he'll be touched a lot more.

He can thank me later.

How to Make Men Desire You

By Gerry Restrivera

Women is the object of men's desire, in return men are also the object of women's desire. Now the question is, with a lot of women out there looking for lovable responsible men, can you make men desire you? Getting his attention is hard enough sometimes and if you aim for his affection and desires, that would require a lot of work and skills. However, there are tips and techniques that you can do.

A woman who is comfortable and confident with herself is a desirable woman. To make men desire you, you have to accept and love yourself first. A woman who is not insecure and confident with herself do not have hang ups, easy to get along with and men will love to be around you. Men do not want women with a lot of insecurities that he needs to try everything just to make her feel good about herself.

A woman who dresses well is a desirable woman. It doesn’t mean that you have to wear expensive clothes but women should keep up with the trend and take care of herself physically. If you know how to dress properly, know how to give your body some love and care, people and including men will treat you well and want to be near you of course. You should know how to groom yourself and take care of your body to make men desire you.

A woman who is smart and intelligent is a desirable woman. Shapely body and a beautiful face, although important to attract men are all superficial. If you do not have brains or do not know how to make a good conversation then you are just one of those beautiful women who lack substance. You do not have to be a super genius, everyone has their own special intelligence and you have to know how to express your thoughts. You can make men desire you if he can learn new things from you and you have the ability and the desire to learn new things too.

A woman who is feminine and acts like a true lady is a desirable woman. Although most women now are career oriented and some women are even in the field of work dominated by men like engineering, it doesn't mean you already lost your femininity. Being sweet, kind hearted, giving and caring are natural traits of being a woman and you can still keep those traits even in this modern world. You can make men desire you if you still have those feminine qualities that most men want to experience with a woman.

Why Love Is The Antidote Of Fear

By Mere T

Love merges two human beings physically, emotionally and spiritually. True love is everlasting and it leaps over the border of terrestrial world to spread to the realm beyond. Every human being needs love and everyone is searching for it. Love is one thing that material wealth cannot buy.

Love is the primordial force in the universe and it is what links and unites everything. Love is the original substance of each and every one of the prophets and every religion has touched on this unique source.

Yet sometimes when they find it, they can also be disappointed, betrayed in their trust and filled with a desire for revenge. When suffering pushes us to such extreme feelings, love abandons our hearts, and a grey pall falls over our existence.

That is because Love is an intense emotion; love is a source of energy; it is like a magnetic flow and it extends its radiance over the person who inspires it. Moreover, you have probably noticed that even at a distance, feelings can create an impact.

Truth to tell, all the great Masters on this world have revealed this: the world around us is governed by the luminous, magic energy of Love. It is the main force in the universe, the source of everything; all other forms of energy are derived from it.

Psychic Maria Duval says Love is the antidote for fear. How true this statement is. Love is also the most powerful forces in the universe because it binds all together.

Maria Duval also says that you can accept this energy into your innermost heart so that its radiation will fill into you by developing a positive and constructive way of thinking, for Love contains everything and makes everything possible.

In conclusion, the force of Love can make you to be loved, heal you and free you from suffering. If fear is a feature of mankind, Love itself is the quality of God.

Am I in Love? 3 Proven Ways to Find Out Whether You Are in Love or Not

By Puspha Pal Singh

Do you have this strange feeling inside you which is hard to figure out? This may be love but since you are confused it can be otherwise as well. This is normally a situation of mixed feelings where you find it real hard to decide whether it's true love or is it just attraction. Read on to find out some of the best proven ways to find out whether this is love or just attraction.

Is he/she always in your thoughts? - Normally when a person is in love they simply can't stop thinking about the person they are in love with. No matter how hard you try but such thoughts would always conquer your mind even when you don't want them to. You would be totally driven crazy just based on these thoughts.

Do you care for him/her- Normally when we love someone we tend to care about them a lot? We value them even more them we value ourselves and this is what true love is all about. Are you hurt when the person you feel you might love is hurt? Do you feel or experience joy when the person you feel you might love is happy? Is the answer to these questions is yes than you most probably love that person.

Does his/her company comfort you? - When you are in love with someone you would always feel great comfort and joy when that person is around you. And when you are away from the same person you would experience loneliness and discomfort. It's often said that the one's we love the most comfort us at the same time hurt us the most. Therefore if even the smallest of comments from your partner hurts you a lot than you are definitely in love with that person.