How to Say I Love You? In 3 Simple Steps

By Puspha Pal Singh

Saying I love you can be the hardest thing on this planet. How to say it? When to say it? Where to say it? Will he or she say yes or no? There are thousands of questions which dominate our mind just thinking about what’s going to happen after you say it. But the fact is if you say "I love you" in the right manner than you would never have to hear no for an answer. Read on to find out someone of the best ways on how to say I love you to your partner.

Give a pleasant surprise- There are places where you can say I love you to your partner but the timing and place has a big role to play in this situation. You simply can not approach your partner at the wrong place and say I love you directly. You might get rejected or maybe even have to face serious embarrassment.

Set up the stage for it- The best way to say I love you and get the same response from your partner is to set up the perfect moment and stage to say I love you. Take your partner out for a special dinner just for two and share a very intimate moment together. Overwhelm your partner with different surprises and when you feel the moment is right strike your partner with "I love you".

Don't think of the consequences- Just remember you would never know what’s going to happen unless you say it. Therefore stop scaring yourself thinking that he or she might reject you in the end just say what you have to say and that is "I love you". Once you say it your job is done and the load is off your chest. Also the way you say I love you matter a lot in getting the desired response. When you say I love you, you really have to mean it otherwise you might not get the same response.

Find Yourself to Love

By Sandya De Silva

Here's the key to love the other
First find your self in your Creator
And begin to love your real self
For you are so loved by your Maker
Who one day
Thought of you alone
And designed you with HIS very Hands
Much detail God put into you
To make sure you were not a clone
And nor a mass production
But a unique individual
To the very hairs and fingerprint
So HE could take great delight in you
And have a unique relationship with you

When you find your self
In your Creator this way
For the first time you will grasp
The hard truth that
If you don't love your self
The way the Creator loves you
You will never know another's love
Even if you are so loved by them
For the first time you will know
What it means
To love and accept your self
Be loved and accepted by others
And to love and accept others
Not in the worldly selfish way
But in the Godly selfless way
For the first time you will know
What it means
To walk in your own skin
And to be liberated
For the first time you will be fearless
Just to be your self
And never to let another rob your self
For the first time you will begin to enjoy
Being your self
And letting others know your self
For the first time you will know
That there is no need
To compare your self
Neither with the best
Nor with the worst
For you are superior to none
And inferior to none
You are meant to be you
To the best of your ability
For the first time you will experience
What it means to be
At peace with your self
And at peace with others
For the first time you will learn
How to love others
No matter who they are
Or what they are
And in spite of where they are
Or what they have done
Whatever their colour
Caste or creed
You will love them
And not judge them
You will accept them
And not try to change them
When you connect with
Your Creator
And your self
It unleashes
The power within
And the passion
To love your self
To be your self
And love others
With compassion
And then
Just by being your self
And loving them
You will lead them
To find their Creator
To find their true self
And help them
Love themselves
And to love and accept others
And help them
Be loving and creative
To make this world
A better place

Faith, hope and love
Love is the greatest of them all
Love breaks through the barriers
Love covers a multitude of faults
Love never fails
Love always hopes
It always endures
Always forgives
God is love
When you live in love you live in God
Love the other as you love your self
Love sets things in motion
It's the ripple of heaven on earth.

Do What You Love, Happiness Will Follow

By Sue Branner

"Let the beauty of what you love, be what you do." -- Rumi

Do you get excited when you get up to go to work everyday? Does your work fulfill you? When your work gives you energy and satisfies you, you have the opportunity to fill joy on an ongoing basis.

"I love my work," says Tommy, a hair stylist. "I've been doing this for 20 years, and, yes, I get tired at the end of the week. Anyone who says they don't is lying. But I love it! I get to interact with people. I like to work all day long with appointments back to back. I get wrapped up in what I'm doing. I'm focused and I want to give them the best. When my father died last April, work saved me."

If you're not doing a job or volunteer work that you love, what gets in the way? Are you concerned with not making enough money? Are you worried that you won't meet your family obligations? Find a way to restructure your life, and perhaps simplify your lifestyle, to start doing what you love. If you're not ready to make the full leap, bring what you love into your life on a part-time or volunteer basis. Doing what you love, even in small doses, will bring joy to your life and give you the chance to contribute your gifts.

What small step can you take today to move toward doing what you love? Take that step. Happiness will follow.

Have You Fallen in Love?

By Mario Adi saputra

"If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself.
There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart. If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love him, feel honored that love came and
called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.

How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different. If you fall in love with another, and he falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave,do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame,Let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning.
You will know in time.

Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in anyway you can.

There is where many lovers go wrong.Having been so long without love,they understand love only as a need.They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them. The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need.They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love. They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift,and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.

Remember this, and keep it to your heart.Love has its own time, its own seasons,and its own reason for coming and going.You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you.But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover,there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.

Love always has been and always will be a mystery.
Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.

If you keep your heart open, it will come again....

Let Your Emotions Flow With Love Songs

By Tom Janison

“I hold it true, whate'er befall;

I feel it, when I sorrow most;

'Tis better to have loved and lost

Than never to have loved at all”

When Lord Alfred Tennyson had written these wonderful lines, he must have thought about those millions of romantics who wander around in this world. History has witnessed that lovers have had a world of their own where there is nobody to perturb them. Being in love is probably one of the most beautiful things that can happen to someone in a lifetime. Love means a world of its own where things are beautiful and everything seems to be as pure as the word love itself. In fact the world of love is a world of variety. There are various forms, shades and moods of love and the only one thing that can complement this diversity of love are love songs. In fact love songs could actually complement your style of love.

In fact love songs are probably one of the best ways to express your love for that someone special. To be very honest love songs can complement your mood. Whether they are romantic and merry love songs or sad and painful love songs, one has to go through that phase of love while singing that song or while penning that song. Love songs have the capability in them to evoke the feeling of love in the one who listens to them. In fact being in love gives one a certain feeling of freedom and this gets very well reflected through the various love songs that talk about new love and how one feels the freshness and the liberty in a newly found love. Again sad love songs can make one weep and feel the pain of lost love or a love that could never bud. Somebody very rightly said that love and music know no bounds and that they have a deep connection between them.

In fact perfect love songs and the perfect atmosphere can make a person easily express his love for that special someone. In fact as I already said love songs have this immense potential in them that can make a person fall in love and can make a person feel the pain of a lost love. At times love can cause immense pain and this pain can be only understood by the ones who have felt it. Love is probably the only thing that can bring to one immense joy as well as heartbreaking pain. The pain of losing your loved one is probably the worst feeling that one can go through. In fact the song “My heart will go on” by Celine Dion still evokes the feeling of the eternal love and the pain that one goes through when one has to lose the love of his life.

These days love songs are not only available in CDs and DVDs but one can find some of the greatest love songs on the internet and can download them and store them for eternity. Love is an eternal feeling and music makes others feel good and when love songs are made they are meant to make the world the most beautiful place to be in. But yes one should always remember that love is the one thing that brings joys as well as the pain.