A Woman's Complaint - Guys Use the Words "I Love You" Too Lightly or Too Often

By Jerry Heng

Do you find that your guy does not say I love you often enough, or use the words too lightly? Are you clueless about his feelings for you, when you do not hear these three words from him?

Well, women often complain that men use the words I love you too lightly, or do not use them at all. Women do not like guys to use the words too often, as the words would not have any meaning anymore. However, if the guy does not say I love you, a girl will not feel loved.

It is true that women want constant and continual love.

I have a lady friend who had a boyfriend, and both of them had a great time dating. However, the guy has not said I love you to her, after few months of dating. After a few months of waiting, the lady swallowed her pride and said it to him. However, the guy never said it back. In the end, the girl broke off with him, as she felt rejected.

Another lady friend of mine had a boyfriend, who said I love you all the time. To the girl, she felt loved at first. But having heard the words too often, she finds no meaning in the words anymore. She felt that the guy is not taking her seriously, and broke off with him.]

Well, if you have just started dating a guy for a short while, do not press him to say I love you. I cannot tell you when the perfect time is.

But what you want to hear is in a sincere and natural way. What you want is love, and not just sounds. You want to feel love, which he may not say it out. A guy may express his love through actions instead, which is often the case.

However, if he is unable to say I love you after a long time, or if he declares his love too early, it is advisable to re-think if he is the right man. He may not be able to give you the relationship that you desire.

The Five Love Languages Summary

By Forest Anderson

Just as everyone has different personalities and likes and dislikes, people also have different love languages. Your love language is the way that you most feel loved and cared for. Experts have aranged these 5 love languages into five easy to use categories:

The first love language is words of affirmation. If this is your love language, you feel most cared for when your spouse or anyone tells you how wonderful they think you are. It could be verbally or through a written note or another creative way of sharing all the great qualities you possess and all the ways the world is a better place because you are in it.

Another way you might feel loved it through acts of service. If someone taking your car to get detailed or taking over diaper duty for the day or relieving you of some daunting task really hits home with you, then this might be your love language.

The next area is affection. A hug, kiss, snuggle on the couch or sexual intimacy might be the way you feel most loved if your language is affection. It could be sexual or non-sexual, but physical touch is very important to you.

Quality time could also be your love language. Just being with your spouse, whether it's on some adventure or a fancy date or simply sitting the couch, may be the thing that fills you up the most.

The last of the five love languages is gifts. Everyone enjoys getting a gift, but if the receiving something from your spouse lights your fire the most then this might be your love language. It may not even be the gift itself, but the idea of the thought, the time it took and the knowledge your spouse has of you to pick out such a great gift - that completely fills you up!

One thing to be aware of: you tend to love in the way you desire to be loved. So make sure you find out what your spouse's love language is and seek to be creative and intentional in their love language. Happy language lessons!

How To Know If You Are In Love - Figure Out If It's True Love Or Just A Strong Attraction

By Puspha Pal Singh

Almost every human being goes through this phase in his or her life. There is always a time in our lives where we feel it might be love but we are never sure. You see love is a very deep emotion and is much more than just mere attraction. But how to figure out if it's love or just plain attraction? Read on to discover some of the best ways to find out whether it's true love or not and achieve the desired results.

You think about that person 24/7- Have you ever had a feeling about someone and you simply cant stop thinking about that person? No matter whether its morning or night that person even hounds your dreams while you are sleeping. Well this obsessed feeling about someone which you can't seem to control is known as love.

You feel extreme joy around that person- Whenever you are around that person you always experience joy and happiness no matter what mood you were in before meeting him or her. You see when you are in love the person you love becomes someone who would comfort your senses no matter whether you are in a good or a bad mood.

You start missing that person- Love is something which can't keep two people away too long and you instantly start missing that person even when you haven't talked for a day.

You feel their pain- Another best way to figure out whether you are love or not is by the way you feel the feelings of the person you love. You see when he or she is in pain you would feel the same feelings and you would feel their pain. You would find it extremely hard to see them in pain as if they were a part of your body.

Am I in Love? Mind Blowing Ways to Find Out Whether You Are in Love Or Not

By Puspha Pal Singh

So are you in love? Humans have a tendency to question their instincts and often a lot of people out there tend to confuse love for just mere attraction. Love is a very deep emotion and you should never confuse it with initial attraction. So how can one find out whether he/she is in love or not? Read on to discover some of the most earth shattering ways to find out whether you truly are in love or not......

No matter how hard you might try you keep thinking of that person- Does it happen to you a lot? Do you find it hard to stop thinking about the person you feel that you might love? Well if this thing carries on for a long period of time then it's definitely love. You see when our thinking goes out of control and we keep focusing on the same person over and over again then we have definite deeper feelings towards this person.

You feel like heaven around this person- Does this person's company give you absolute joy no matter which mood you might be in? Does this person make you happy even when you are down and depressed? Does his/her presence along lightens up your eyes? If this is the case then it's definitely love.

Do you get strong feelings to spend the rest of your life with this person- This is one thing which will always happen when you love someone. Love is such a strong feeling that you feel like being around that person all the time and not only this you get strong feelings of spending the rest of your life with this special person. There would be no doubts in your mind when you consider to do something in the long term.